Essential Guide
DC Self-Uniting Marriages
If you’re planning to marry yourselves in Washington, DC, it’s important that you understand the process clearly before you begin.
Many couples arrive at the Marriage Bureau, complete their application, and leave with a license—but still aren’t sure what to do next.
This guide was created to walk you through the entire process so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
What This Guide Covers
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Understanding self-uniting marriages in Washington, DC
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The difference between officiated and self-performed marriages
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How to apply for your marriage license (online and in person)
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What to expect at the DC Marriage Bureau
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How to complete your marriage license correctly
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When and how to return your license
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How to obtain and use your certified copy
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Simple ways to complete your self-uniting marriage
How This Works
This is a step-by-step guide supported by video walkthroughs and written instruction.
You can:
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watch the process
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read the steps
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revisit each section as needed
Everything is structured so you can understand the process at your own pace.
Who This Is For
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Couples planning a self-uniting marriage in Washington, DC
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Out-of-town couples traveling to DC to get married
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Anyone who wants to complete the process correctly without confusion
Access
Full Access — $45
One-time payment
Unlimited access
Private Guidance
If you would like additional support beyond the guide, private guidance is available.
This is for couples who:
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want clarification on specific parts of the process
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prefer direct conversation
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need help understanding their situation
What to Expect
Private guidance sessions are focused and structured.
You can:
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ask specific questions
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receive clarification
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gain confidence before completing your marriage
Important
The Essential Guide provides complete step-by-step instruction.
Private guidance is available for additional support and clarification—it is not a replacement for the guide.